Don’t stress the could haves. If it should have, it would have.
So you are in a post-breakup mode and you don’t know what haunts you more, the memories or the happy person you used to be and at this moment you are thinking, when will I not feel this way?
It’s time for you to wake up if he is stupid enough to walk over you, be smart enough to kick him out of your heart. Instead of hiding from your life in pajama-clad crying on the floor depression, take some time out to heal, kick all the emotions
In truth is a lot of fucking fish in the sea. Cheer up. Everyone can be replaced.
May the bridges you burn, light the way
One of the sneakiest parts of the breakup process is the part when you are snowed under with fickle emotions. Last night you felt so over it you were laughing about all that wasted time you spent with that loser, and at this moment you are screaming and crying your eyes out. The flip-flop of emotions is pretty normal in order to see out the other end of this dark tunnel we have a heartbreak formula to calculate your time of grieving.
The Classic Theory
It’s not going to happen overnight. However, this formula would be incredibly helpful to get some sort of immediate magical healing.
Short Relationships (3 MONTHS OR LESS)
- Count up the number of weeks that you knew the person before the relationship turned passionate, divide by 2
- Count up the number of weeks that you were passionately involved
- Add-up A and B
- Count the average number of days per week you were caught up with him and divide this number by 2
- Multiply C and D – and see how many weeks it will take to set in motion and feel normal
Is it an accurate formula? Who knows –this isn’t science
If a divorcee can move on at some point, you can totally let go of that guy you were only seeing for a couple of months.
The Scientific Theory
They say it takes some time to heal a broken heart. I wonder how much time?
More the time spent together, stronger will be the emotions.
If you keep focus on the hurt, you will continue to suffer. If you focus on the lesson, you will keep on to growing.
A 2009 study found that it took a year and a half to get over the super-long-term or live-together relationships.
The it-all-depends-on-the-breakup theory
Dr. Darcy, relationship expert has modified classic theory according to the circumstances. So he says,
If it was a communal breakup, you can subtract 10% from the classic theory
If you are cheated on, subtract 20% it will take time to heal
Add 30% to the classic theory if it was you first love of life
A break up is a huge incident in someone’s life. The stronger the bond was, the harder the breakup usually is.
The Reddit Theory
Missing you comes in wave and tonight I am drowning
It’s not very pleasant to realize, it may take eight to eleven years to get over the person who was your whole life but what if you was only an episode in his life? If someone doesn’t care losing you, then why are you crying your eyes out. There are many people out there that would die if it meant losing you.
Love is unconditional but relationships are not
A breakup is a broken mirror you might end up hurting yourself trying to pick up all of the broken pieces.
There is no exact equation of getting over a breakup. There is no one who will cry your tears only you are capable to free yourself from the cage. Shut your eye, clear your heart, and let it go away.
You will not mend by going back to what bust you.